Communication is key.
Communication is probably a parent’s most important job for back to school. Open up the lines of communication with classroom teachers, special education teachers, and coordinators. Schedule a phone conference and be sure to discuss the most important topics like expectations, goals, and concerns. Although teachers receive copies of accommodations and IEPs, it is far more effective to have a telephone chat to bring up these important considerations. Getting everyone on the same page at the very start helps to start the school year strong.
Teach your child self-advocacy.
In an ideal situation, children gradually begin to take on more and more ownership of their learning and ultimately taking an active role in participating in putting together an individualized learning plan. Students are often identified later and many students find themselves needing to self-advocate sooner rather than later. Perhaps a substitute is unaware of important accommodations or is putting your child on the spot to read aloud. This is a particularly sensitive and tricky situation. Even barring this sort of tricky scenario, students need to be able to communicate about how they learn best, what they need to be most successful, and how to ask for help.
Find the self-care that works best for your child.
School can be exhausting for all kids, but particularly so for students who may have difficulty with learning to read and write. Knowing how your child best recharges and refreshes at the end of a long day is extremely helpful. Perhaps they need quiet time and a snack when first arriving home from school. Or maybe exercise it the key to your learner’s self-care routine. Helping your child determine this and supporting them in their self-care endeavors is supporting not only their reading and writing, but the whole child and their social and emotional well-being.
Harness the power of routine and organization.
Chances are it comes as no surprise to you that many students who struggle with reading or writing also may have characteristics of ADHD. Since students with dyslexia often need more time than their classmates to complete assignments, organizational skills are very important. Find out what works for your family and your student. A big wall calendar in the kitchen might be the perfect organizational tool, or some other arrangement of schedules, visual checklists and calendar apps may be just what your student needs to stay organized. There is no “one-size-fits-all” solution, so keep trying until you find something that clicks for your learner.
Seek additional tools.
Build an assistive toolbox with your student. A key to the success of students with dyslexia is for them to know the materials that help them be successful. Whether it is assistive technology devices, apps, planners, or fidget toys, an assistive toolbox can be as high tech or low tech as works for you. For high schoolers or college students, a notetaking app and Apple pencil can be helpful with easing the transition to notetaking during lectures.
Before high-tech, you may want to help them harness the power of index cards and highlighters to make studying work effectively. Colored pens or color-coded notebooks are other popular organizational tools. Your student may need to try out more than one organizational technique to help them master their learning. These tools will likely shift as your child advances through the grades and begins to cover more complex material.
AND A BONUS!
Find one outlet for your child to explore their passion.
When the school bell begins to ring again and the buses start to roll, our children with dyslexia start spending their days doing hard things. So much of school is hard for them. In a school day, there may be very few things that hit on a child’s strengths and make them feel proud. Whether it is art or music or animals, finding a way to nurture their special interest or passion helps battle the fatigue of hard learning in a couple of important ways. Nurturing a passion is restorative of energy and positivity. Seeing success is highly encouraging and motivating. Seeing the ways that reading and writing helps them with something they are passionate about is further motivating.
As you juggle the many hats of parenting and teaching, I hope this list of tips helps you and your child start the year off smoothly and successfully!
For more tips, listen to the Go Dyslexia Podcast!
Dr. Erica Warren invited me to be a guest on her podcast! In the episode, “Tips for Empowering Readers With Dyslexia”, I’m sharing a lot more advice and digging into the social emotional side of dyslexia. Erica would greatly appreciate a 5-star review if you enjoyed listening. Thank you!!